How to Use It
Witchcraft & Folk Magick
- Roll it on the wrists and neck before a date or a reconciliation conversation.
- Dress a red or pink candle with it on a Friday, beside a token from the person you want closer.
- Touch it to the corners of a photograph of the two of you, kept in a drawer by the bed.
Hoodoo & Rootwork
- Anoint a love mojo bag of rose petals and a pair of lodestones.
- Roll a little onto a crossed name paper before setting it in a honey jar.
A Simple Working
- On a Friday, set out a red chime candle and a photograph or written name of the person you want closer.
- Roll the perfume lightly over the candle from the wick to the base.
- Set the photograph or name beneath the candle holder and light it.
- Roll the perfume onto your wrists and neck.
- Speak to the flame plainly about what you want between you.
- Let the candle burn down, and keep the photograph or paper somewhere private.
Pairs Well With
- Lodestones, carried in pairs for love.
- Rose petals, for romance in a sachet.
- Red candles, for passion.
- Honey jar supplies: a small jar, honey and a name paper.
- Come To Me for Her, the matched perfume, if a couple works together.
What You Receive
Come To Me for Him (Ven a Mi Para Ellos) perfume oil with pheromones, blue in colour, in a 1/3 oz roll-on vial, blended with essential oils and pheromones, with a small talisman steeped in the perfume.
Origin & Lore
This is the Para Ellos, for him, version of the Ven a Mí formula, the Spanish counterpart of the hoodoo Come to Me oil, made as a roll-on spiritual perfume. It is worn to draw love, call back affection and keep a partner close, and each vial blends essential oils and pheromones with a small talisman steeped in the perfume.
Ven a mí: come to me. In botánicas the formula comes in pairs, one for her and one for him.
Love perfumes in his-and-hers versions are a long-standing feature of Latin American spiritual-supply shelves, sold alongside matching candles and baths. The Come to Me formula itself appears in American spiritual catalogues of the early twentieth century, and the botánica name Ven a Mí carries the same work in Spanish.
Did You Know?
In Spanish, ellas refers to a group of women and ellos to a group of men or a mixed group, which is why so many botánica love products come in matched Para Ellas and Para Ellos versions.



