When it comes to reconciliation work, you really want to use these herbs:
Balm of Gilead – used to soothe broken hearts, calm arguments and mend broken relationships.
You can use them in candles, bathe with them, or use them as an incense burnt over charcoal disc.
Some people like to use the come to me line of products for reconciliation work, and these are usually used alongside a white candle.
We generally use pink candles when it comes to reconciliation. You could use a single pink candle of the sex of the individual you are trying to reconcile with, or use the couple reconciliation candle in pink.