If you have an aching heart and need new love in your life, here is a very simple spell. You can try to begin the manifestation into reality process. It has been very successful for me as a witch to perform this spell.
Correspondences for the spell:
Goddess: Aphrodite. Who is Aphrodite? Aphrodite is the ancient Greek goddess of sexual love and beauty, identified with Venus by the Romans. She was known primarily as a goddess of love and fertility and occasionally presided over marriage. You don’t need a statue to connect with this great goddess, but we suggest that you call to her
Timing: this spell is done starting on the new moon and working it up to the full moon. So it will take you around 12 to 14 days to complete this spell, but it’s totally worth it.
Suggested tools:
Candles, I suggest you get pillar candles because you will be burning these candles over two weeks.
- 1 white candle
- One candle – Choose a pink, red, yellow, or orange candle
- Two candle holders -to hold your candles
- Rose-colored altar cloth
- a piece of red chalk or other type of red drawing instrument
Optional Herbs to roll into the candle (or dress around the candles)
Although there are many plants associated with love and romance, the following have all earned a powerful reputation as love-drawing botanicals. In combination, they’re even more potent. Incorporate them into your spells as inspired: basil, carrots, catnip, chamomile, cardamom, coriander, cubeb, gardenia, grains of paradise, hibiscus, hyacinth, iris, jasmine, lady’s mantle, lavender, lovage, mint, onion, orchid, poppy, rose, rosemary, Saint John’s Wort, southernwood, strawberries, thyme, tormentil, vervain.
IDEA – Hollow out the base and pack it full of botanicals. Alternatively, you could dress the candle with love oil, and roll the candle in the herb
Ritual:
If you like to create a circle to perform your spells, you will sit in a circle of protection. However, if you don’t perform your magic in a circle, you can sit at your altar.
Start with this step. And if you’ve never seriously thought about the type of person you want, take some time to really create this image in your mind. You may even want to do it over the next few months, so you really become super clear on the type of person you feel would be your ideal partner Meditate on all preconceived ideas you have about the perfect partner. You might have a certain person in mind for romance.
Release the thought of that person
Release all notions of what your perfect lover will look like, or do for a career, or even sound like. These are externals, and if you cling to them you may overlook your mate simply because your mind was focused on superficialities.
When your mind is clear and open, hold the candle of your favorite color; this represents you.
Meditate and then speak aloud all the qualities and energies you are willing to bring to an intimate relationship, such as “honesty, and the daily expression of affection, and good humor even in difficult times, etc.
Replace that candle on the altar and pick up the white one. This represents your ideal partner, whoever he or she may be.
Speak aloud the essential qualities you desire in a mate, and ask Aphrodite to bring you together in this lifetime.
Then place the two candles in their holders at opposite ends of the altar.
Draw a heart in the center with the red chalk, large enough for both candleholders.
Each day thereafter, meditate on the perfect loving relationship for a few minutes and move the two candles an inch closer together.
If you started on a new moon, then by the full moon, the candles should be touching in the middle of the heart. When they meet, draw two more hearts around the first one, raise energy by singing your favorite love song, (or singing with a recording of it), and charge the candles.
Final thoughts:
This spell almost seems too easy to be effective, doesn’t it? But the key to bringing this spell into success is consistency. It was common in ancient times to keep performing your ritual over a period of days or weeks, and sometimes even months.
I would love to know what you did to modify this Ritual, or if you tried it, as I suggested, what has been your result?
If all of the above seems a little difficult, and you want a spell that you can perform in just one spellcasting session, then we do have ready prepared kits with instructions that are super affordable. Check this out for a spell kit that attracts a new lover into your life.