The Come to Me Oil used in a magic spell for Love

Love spells are an essential tool in our magical tool box.  The following is a classic love spell that works quite effectively for both men and women.

First, obtain a small bride & groom candle—the kind you put on a wedding cake. NOTE: If you can’t get the bride and groom candle, use the RED Marriage Candle, which also represents the union of lovers for a relationship.

Second, if you can, retrieve a single thorn from a rose bush. If you can’t, a tooth pick or needle will suffice, though it’s not ideal as the rose thorn.

Third, you will need Come To Me oil. Come To Me is an old Hoodoo formula for drawing a lover. It is one of the most popular magickal oils, naturally.

Time your spell according to your need. For example:

For those trying to reunite with a past lover or patch things up with a quarreling partner, schedule your ceremony for the Full Moon—a perfect time for seeking closure, reunion and completion in your relationship matters.
For those trying to attract new love or conjure a new relationship, schedule your working for the New Moon instead, since that’s a better time for casting new intentions.
And everyone should avoid working any love magic on the last few days of the Moon cycle before the New Moon, since that’s a time for extreme banishing rituals and exorcisms, so save those nights for spells to banish exes and unwanted admirers.

Come To Me Oil

Traditionally, Come To Me Oil is used in love spells with a specific target (that is, someone that you already know). However, it may be employed for love-drawing in general—to find a new person to romance or to overcome a sexual dry spell. Technically, the object of desire does not even have to be a person. The experienced magick worker can harness their own sexual energy to achieve almost any objective…and Come To Me Oil can be used to attract whatever you desire.

How to use Come To Me Oil:

Come To Me Oil is a top choice for anointing love spell candles and figure candles. Choose one candle to represent yourself and another your intended partner, dress them with oil and burn them together. Visualize your partner in your arms while reciting Psalm 23 or the erotic passages from the Song of Solomon (traditional), or any love poem that turns your crank.

If you’re looking for a new love, wear Come To Me Oil as a personal perfume. Stir a few drops into your bathwater before going out in order to be noticed by an attractive stranger. For best results, perform Come To Me magick when the Moon is waxing to full.

What’s in Come To Me Oil:

Come to Me Oil is usually composed of voluptuous sweet florals, sometimes with Catnip or Honeysuckle to help lure the intended lover. Patchouli or Musk may be included to amp up the desire factor.

2dr Come To Me Oil

Come To Me Oil 4 Dram

1 Lb Come To Me Power Incense

Come To Me Hem Stick 20 Pack

Come To Me (ven A Mi) Aromatic Jar Candle

Come To Me 7 Day Jar Candle

1-3oz Come To Me For Him (ven A Mi Para Ellos )w- Pheromones

1-3oz Come To Me For Her (ven A Mi) W- Pheromones


Ritual Preparation

For your ceremony, create a sacred space using incense, sage, prayer, chanting, bells, meditation, etc. Then, using your rose thorn, carve the bride & groom candle with the words, “All my love come to me,” or simply, “Love come to me.”
Carve the phrase three times on the candle if possible. If the candle is too small, just once is fine.
Optionally, you can dress the candle in a combination of rose oil, honey, vetiver, jasmine, lilac and lavender OR Come to me oil.
Additionally, if you are casting the spell with a particular person in mind that you are hoping to attract, then you should also acquire a picture and some keepsakes of that person—especially items they have physically touched.

A Warning

But a word of warning to those who are trying to use love magic to seduce a particular person: the most you will be able to accomplish is encouraging your target to give you all the love they have for you, as much or as little as that may be. They will not simply blindly fall in love with you. Magically forcing someone who does not love you to fall in love can cause ZOMBIE like effects. Will you love then if they are not being themselves?

I am guilty of using love spells – as experiments – on men, and then had to deal with these poor love sick men, embarrassed themselves by begging for my attention. It is exhausting and annoying for me – and these guys know they are not acting as normal – but feel they have no control over their emotions. Sad really.


Ideally, you should use this spell to attract the right partner for you—regardless of who that may be. If you are not specific about who you are targeting, and you leave that up to the universe, then you will greatly increase the chances of your spell working instantly.

If you target your spell at a particular person, your will is bumping up against theirs, fundamentally putting you in conflict. While it’s certainly possible to influence someone this way—just as it’s possible to physically restrain someone if you truly intended it—that doesn’t mean you should do it. Using the spell to summon a healthy relationship rather than manipulate an unrequited love will produce much more effective and harmonious results.

Setting the candle on your altar

When you’re done carving and maybe dressing the candle, set it upon your altar. If you don’t have an altar, just set it somewhere at about eye level where you can gaze at it while meditating comfortably.

Light the candle and gaze upon it until it melts completely. As you observe the changing candle, visualize experiencing the outcome you desire. Imagine your love coming to you and how amazing that makes you feel. Visualize with all the senses by imagining how your lover feels, smells, tastes, and indulge in the sumptuousness of the visualization.

Disposing of the candle remains

After the candle is done burning, wrap up the remains in a simple container like a small box, pouch or bundle of cloth.

Place it on your altar or in a safe place where it won’t be disturbed.

Leave it there indefinitely.

If love comes to you and you change your mind or the relationship sours and you no longer want that person to love you, then take the remains of the spell and ritually dispose of it in your preferred method.

Options for disposing are to burn the remains of the melted candle in a ceremonial fire, bury them at a crossroads, or toss them into a moving body of water.

I hope you enjoy this spell!


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